Dating younger girl child
They are conformist, lazy, too fond of drink and are not good in bed, a point which raised an approving shout of laughter from the Russian women in the audience.
By this, Deidre meant that they do not like cunnilingus, which she considers “pretty well standard operating procedure.” The painter had once said to her that he would do it for her only if she “guaranteed results”.
Nonetheless, the large number of Russian women in the audience seemed to agree with most of what she said about their menfolk.
The first indication that Deidre’s expectations with the painter were going to be upset came on the morning after the party when he announced he was in love, despite the fact that he was ten years younger than her, had never known her sober and was himself already married. “He stormed out of the flat, in a fury, slamming doors, and I never expected to see him again. He would do crazy things like send flowers and the note on the flowers would say, ‘I am down stairs, let’s go and karaoke.’ I ignored everything.” Then the painter did the Russian version of climbing up the drainpipe.
This makes it hard to trust them, especially for a woman.
“Russian men complain a lot about feeling emasculated,” Deidre ended by saying.
But against this, her painter was upset about public opinion.
Apparently she was at home and had run out of cigarettes. Despite being an ablebodied woman, she expected her son to travel half-way across Moscow and run an errand for her. “That,” Deidre commented, “does not happen outside Russia.” Most Russian woman I have told this story to subsequently have laughed and said that all it illustrates is how gullible American women can be.
Then she was unceremoniously sacked when it was discovered that she had published a novel on the internet combining oil and sex in an allegedly inappropriate way. She has been married to two Americans and a Frenchman, and currently has an “attachment” in Singapore and a “muse” in Australia. Deidre’s talk centred round the story of her affair with one particular Russian man, a painter whom she met at a party and got wildly drunk with on Russian champagne.
Now she has to sing for her supper, and she came to one of Stephen Lapeyrouse’s English Language Evenings in Moscow, on 27 November, to publicise her views on Russian men, who are the focus of much of her writing. She envisaged a one-night stand but instead got a lesson on the passions and fears of a man who, on two years’ experience in Moscow (and without speaking any Russian), she concluded was typical of all Russian men.
As long as they are both interested in pursuing a relationship with each other, it shouldn't matter what their peers think.
Where is it written that in a relationship the male must be older than the female?