How men think dating
and in return, she doesn't have to do anything at all but be herself. We don't have a whole hoard of friends to get emotional support from AND we don't have tons of "friends" waiting to f*** us the second we're out of a relationship.I'm going to ignore that last stupid sentence (seriously, WTF dude?A lot of women I have been around seem to have this romance novel fantasy that some guy will come along and just whisk her off her feet.The idea is he'll just show up out of the blue and gift her with exotic travel, fancy dinners, nights out on the town, chocolate, flowers, and all that jazz..... Source: Shutter Stock Xstream3: I'm pretty sure a breakup is harder for the dude 99% of the time.
Just because we're supposed to be assertive and "manly" doesn't mean we necessarily are. Being a male doesn't automatically mean you're confident and self-assured.It's unfortunate but I'm not willing to give up on relationships just because girls don't like being hit on when they're out with some friends.I read this complaint a lot within the thread - guys don't understand the signals girls give, and girls are too quick to get angry about unwanted attention.Source: Shutter Stock daktardoom: How many women seem oblivious to their hypocrisy of dubbing men creeps and potential rapists, where in the exact same situation a handsome guy would be dubbed sexy and mysterious. Source: Shutter Stock pizza ISpizza: The whole concept of wanting to ask a girl out, having the courage to ask a girl out, but not being able to because you can't afford to. Even though many women are willing to pay for dates, guys either don't realize that, or they just don't want them to.(come up in conversation plenty of times when I responded to the way they talked about men in the same venue) One thing I learned from this Reddit thread? Source: Shutter Stock Cygnus_X: Men are actually looking to get things out of the relationship.While I hope for equality between the sexes on every level, I think it is very accurate to say that the dating world is really different for males and females.According to basic societal rules, guys are the ones who are supposed to be making the first move, winning the girl over, and coming off as strong and confident rather than meek and nervous.Like I said before, I do think a lot of girls assume guys don't take rejection as hard as we do.But it seems like they actually do, so it's definitely something to keep in mind.Guys want a girl who is really confident in herself, but they don't a girl who is too self-absorbed, and it's the same the other way around. Source: Shutter Stock Justice_Prince: Guys don't enjoy the chase, or playing games. Everyone else is just playing along so they don't get left in the dust. .action_button.action_button:active.action_button:hover.action_button:focus.action_button:hover.action_button:focus .count.action_button:hover .count.action_button:focus .count:before.action_button:hover .count:before.u-margin-top--lg.u-margin-left--sm.u-flex.u-flex-auto.u-flex-none.bullet.