How to write an online dating email

She gave me her permission to cut and paste the email into this post: “Hi John ! Work was just out of hand today…Had 3 meetings and the second one caused me to be late for the third one.Oh well, I shouldn’t complain because for the past 4 years I have been working towards this promotion and I guess it comes with the territory.I have known Sally for almost 10 years and she does not fit into one of those categories.Sally is relatively new to online dating and doesn’t realize that there is an unwritten code of conduct when it comes to writing emails.So before you get to the point where you can freely communicate back and forth in the e Harmony system, you have already gotten to know quite a bit about the other person.There is a ton of information that you can use to compose a very well written, thoughtful email to your matches on e Harmony.

Anyways, hope you had a great day and talk to you soon !Sally instead greeted him, picked out two things to further expand upon (that they briefly spoke about via “guided communication”) and then said her goodbye.Sally did not come off as desperate, needy, clingy or gave off any sort of red flags that would send John packing for the hills.For illustration purposes, I am going to use my friend Sally who came to me with the exact same problem last week. I took a look at her personality profile, then took a look at her emails and found the root cause of the problem.I asked her to write an email to one of her matches, but not send it.That nice…“John” was the brand name of a diary that she picked up at Staples instead of a live human being.When John reads this email, what is he going to think/say?I told Sally that she should have gone back to those Q&A “guided communication” section and pulled a couple of good questions from his answers.She could have asked him to expand upon his love for dining and cooking.Trust me, if a man is into you…you send him an email that is similar to what I just wrote, he will have no problem composing a great reply.That email did not give out any irrelevant information about Sally (that would raise a red flag in John’s mind).

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