Play dating love games
Plus by going slowly and avoiding sex with all of them, you will be able to see each one’s dating game emerge.
Christiane Northrup, Internationally bestselling author of Women’s Bodies, Women’s Wisdom.They’re other players, to be held at emotional arms-length, outsmarted, and beaten.Viewing romance, dating, even casual sex as a game is a way of taking something that could be co-operative and uplifting, and turning it into a battlefield in which some win… It’s when guys are focused on choosing words they think will subconsciously suggest that their date give them a blowjob, when they could instead just focus on, well, connecting with them, a human predisposed to spontaneously engaging in acts of enthusiastic sexuality of their own volition! And then of course, there’s the ‘but (insert gender here) always wins! most of us have been played by someone who, as it turned out, was just pretending to care for us, to love us, even to like us, all in calculated effort to get from us without giving in return.Looking back, I’ve noticed that I’ve written about a dozen or more blogs to shed light on how many men approach dating and mating. Men fear being overwhelmed and taken over in an all-consuming relationship.For your convenience, these can now be found in the Dating Advice for Women Series How could he disappear so quickly after he came on so strong? Believe it or not, they also fear rejection and abandonment. The dating games men play are both unconscious and conscious games which create a maddening push-pull with your heart.That’s why dating them can be so confusing and frustrating.Guy’s fears of being vulnerable, of being loved and loving, lead them to enact their dating games or patterns.You can see clearly when it is time to stay and work on the relationship or when it’s time to cut your losses and go.You can be freer to choose the ones you want, the ones who give you love that is just right for you. is a relationship advice expert, frequent guest psychologist on The Today Show and the creator of a globally available dating coach and Love Mentor® program. Diana is also the best-selling author of the acclaimed relationship advice book, "Sealing the Deal: The Love Mentor's Guide to Lasting Love", and of the best-selling relationship and dating book, “Love in 90 Days”.